I have read many books: “The Millionaire Mind”, “Instant Millionaire,
Automatic Millionaire”, “Millionaire Next Door”, “One Minute
Millionaire” and many more other life changing books written by the
experts in their various field of endeavour. I even wrote one, The
Millionaire Secrets. But I keep coming back to this one simple fact:
Becoming a millionaire is all in your head.
Here are 10 tips I picked up over the past few years as a full time
motivational speaker and business consultant; tips that will help you
become one of Nigeria next millionaire for 2007:
1. Getting rich is not about money: Peter Lynch says if you
spend 15 minutes a year studying the economy, that is 10 minutes too
many. And when money guru Ric Edelman researched 5,000 millionaires for
Ordinary People, Extraordinary Wealth, he discovered that millionaires
spend an average of just six minutes a day on personal finance. They
have better things to do. Get a life!
2. Accentuate the positive: Most of us have read books like,
Success Through a Positive Mental Attitude. That message was summarized
for me by a U.S. renowned Motivational Speaker, Rene Godfrey: “If you
have a guy with all the survival training in the world who has a
negative attitude and a guy who does not have a clue but has a positive
attitude, I guarantee you that the guy with a positive attitude is
coming out of the woods alive. Simple as that.
3. Think differently: Go inside The Millionaire Mind with
author George Stanley: They think differently from the crowd ... It pays
to be different. Yes, being different helps build wealth. That is the
central theme of his work: Don’t fit in, go your own way.
4. Quit doing what you hate: Many people live in quiet
desperation, waiting for retirement, doing something they hate. Marcus
Buckingham put it very simply in his new book, “ The One Thing You Need
to Know”: Figure out what you don’t like doing, then stop doing it.
5. Do what you love: You have heard all the pep talks: Follow
your bliss; do what you love, money will follow. Never forget Stanley’s
bottom line: If you are creative enough to select the ideal vocation,
you can win, win big-time. The really brilliant millionaires are those
who selected a vocation that they love.
6. Find the real you: Working in a career that does not fit
right is exhausting and stressful. You are less efficient, less
productive. Get in sync with the real you. Get help from a career
counselor. Read books on personality types. In The Millionaire Secrets,
I identify 16 basic types to help people focus on their dreams.
Buckingham’s, Now Discover Your Strengths, is another example. Find the
real you, go for it and never turn back!
7. Invest in Yourself: Tired of working for Corporate
Organizations? Become an entrepreneur. Create your own business. Read
Kiyosakis, Rich Dad series. Browse through EBay for Dummies. Open a
Starbucks franchise. Most millionaires work for themselves, pay less in
tax, live below their means and build equity in themselves.
8. Live with passion: Believe in something. Listen to the
still small voice. What is it: Love, family, jazz, art, golf, writing,
fishing, inventing? Whatever it is, it is you. And it's priceless. My
mentor Judee Pouncey who is a renowned American Publishers and my
foreign mother said to me during a visit to Florida: “If you follow your
bliss, you will always have your bliss, money or not. If you follow
money, you may lose it, and you will have nothing.” I live with that
statement everyday of my life.
9. Live in the moment: A U.S citizen friend of mine in her
60s. When I mention retirement planning, he laughs. He talks about his
next vacation. His new jet skis. He is a survived divorce, bankruptcy,
foreclosure, and health problem. He has a successful business, nice
house, and lots of debt. He is at risk. I could not do it, but he is
happy. We all have friends like him, living in their moment. You need to
live in yours.
10. Make a difference: Most of us focus on our little world
and our future. Millionaires dream of making the world a better place,
with visions of a better tomorrow for everyone. They love helping
people. I will bet you have such a dream. Discover the real meaning of
life by going beyond yourself and make a difference! Remember, being a
millionaire is all in your head. If you got the right attitude, if you
feel it, if you believe you are a millionaire, you are already there.
The money will follow. Trust me.